Secrets of erotic massage

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Most erotic massage is very subtle. Anything to aggressive is either S&M or you’re not being subtle enough. Giving erotic massage is best first without oil and then with oil. You can begin on the small of the back, just above the butt, either sides of the spine with both hands. A light basic stroke from there upwards towards the neck is good. You can use a variety of objects like a hair brush with stiff prongs, a paint brush or “blusher” brush, a ball lightly rolled over the skin is good – if you have a ball made from stone (crystal) or even a big marble – that can work so sensually.
Another stroke you can use is massaging in small circles. Vary the size of the circles, some small, working towards bigger and bigger circles. With all strokes it’s best to start small and work bigger.

Parts of the body that are erotic are the spine, stomach, inner thighs, soles of feet, palms, ears, behind ears and neck. Always remain contact with the body of the person you’re massaging, but be very light.

Using oil, you can use baby oil, but masseurs tend to favour natural oil from plants such as almond oil, I use olive oil even, and buying it, it’s cheaper and no different in buying oil you use for cooking rather than specialist massage oil which is a waste of money. Though I’d never use sunflower or vegetable oil but like almond, most nut oils, pumpkin seed oil is very interesting and is good for a normal massage though it’s green but is very hydrating.

Apply oil on the small of the back, warming it up in your hands before application. Favour using a generous amount of oil – I’d use a 1/4 of a cup. Will oil applied you need to be fast to distribute it on the body, usually the back. Use the same strokes as before but always be subtle.

I find it great to end with tapping the fingers on the body lightly and this can feel really sensational. Duration of the massage I’ve had best results between 15-30 minutes. Anything less and your partner will be dissatisfied.