The single most important item must be communication. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with each other, not being afraid to be honest or vulnerable or to be clear on your expectations. Gay relationships are often stereotyped as promiscuous, sex-oriented or shallow. This is definitely true in some cases, and isn't always a bad thing ... especially when both parties share the same aims (sex). These "relationships" can be lots of fun, and can also grow into stronger more durable commitments. We've all experienced this kind of exciting "affair" ... with the late night booty-calls. My own preference (however) is for relationships of the heart. Where you both believe it will last forever. Where you share a whole life together; physical and emotional. Even now when I kiss my boyfriend (or he kisses me) ... I feel weak at the knees. The softness of his lips against mine makes me tingle from head to toe. When he touches me I feel literally wild with passion ... and the orgasms are way more intense! It's also easier experimenting with new ideas, positions, locations ... because you trust each other to be respectful. Being apart can be unbearable. We always try to remember the small things; that crucial cup of tea in the mornings, kissing each other hello and goodbye, taking turns with cooking etc. This doesn't mean it's all easy, of course we sometimes argue or misunderstand each other. But these times are almost always where we get lost in our own worlds and fail to communicate properly. What's the secret ingredient of your best relationship?
Posts
No comments:
Post a Comment