Why is it that some older men (in their 60s and 70s) in the gym love wafting around without towels, and always get just that little bit too close for comfort. Ok. I'm sure we'll all agree ... it's great when a nicely toned naked man accidentally slips into your shower cubicle needing help reaching those awkward to wash spots (er erm). But it's just not the same when he's a little too old or badly out of shape. Don't get me wrong. There are some truly gorgeous "silver foxes" (e.g. Sean Connery). These men look after themselves, work out fairly frequently, eat well and have an aura of experience. They are super hot! I'm talking more about the type that just cruises around the showers, the sauna, steam room ... or sits in the changing rooms for too long treating the benches as some form of chaise longue (there are other venues designed specifically for this purpose). Sometimes this "seediness" can be kind of horny, but most often it's just a little disconcerting. Perhaps we should throw caution to the wind and strike up a conversation ... see where it goes?
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Sean Connery? I'd prefer George Clooney any day. I've a feeling there will be a "How to prepare for sex with men in their 70's" blog post coming soon??
ReplyDeleteYeah man, I totally agree about George Clooney, he could be my Daddy any day of the week. ;-)
ReplyDeleteThe reason these men get too close for comfort I think is because these men are trolls and they don't care what you think because they are so desperate. They are usually those married living in the closet bisexual types or in any case the types that do not have a life, or an integrated life where sex is another aspect of their regular life. For them sex with men revolves around the locker room or some place where it is "OK" for them to be this way with other men, because that is the only place where men come into their lives sexually and they confuse you being naked with the idea that you are there for them sexually. For them naked image of men is equivalent to sex, so they have no boundaries in these public places. I am a nudist and I can NOT tell you how many times I see people that confuse my presence naked in a semi-public setting with the idea that I am there to gratify their closeted homosexual fantasies and that I am some kind of unpaid whore. Really annoying... But fortunately I am good with setting boundaries with these people.
If they get to close, just give them a good hard flick of your finger to the head of their dick while looking them straight in the eye with the NO look. They will respect at least a 3' boundary space with you after one or two of those episodes. Hell they probably won't even what to look you in the eye after it in a locker room, which is fine by me.
They are not bad people really, just un-socialized ones because they never integrated their sexual involvements with men in a social setting so they act like kids in places where other naked men are, especially around gay men, because they think what they are doing is OK. They just need to grow up some and integrate their sexual desires and actions into their social behavior, just as a horny adolescent needs to do if he is to be accepted in society.